I miss you already
and
I miss 'our' chapter
but
As I start to slam the book closed
so
Unhappy with this ending
The Author reminds me
He is writing my book
(If I let Him)
And it's not over yet
Perhaps we were only minor characters in each other's story
But will be supporting characters in someone else's book
Here's to happy endings...
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Monday, December 13, 2010
Thursday, December 9, 2010
Why. Does. The. Belly. Need. Prayer?
Just posted something about bellies, and now I'm posting this. (Because I told Sharron I probably would post these two old posts from my drafts.) Probably I've written too much about bellies, so that's kinda awkward but...
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I don't want girls rubbing my belly either.
In fact that is sometimes even more uncomfortable than guys rubbing it. Girls only occasional do so to me, and is more brief, so less intrusive.
Except in church when praying.
One of my friends recently said, "I hate, like, when someone pets my arm. And these people who have to be all over you all the time." She shuddered, "I am not a touchie person."
I made a mental note of her preferences, then said with a shudder, "Yeah well, I am a touchie person, but when people pray for my belly I feel assaulted."
Then that very night at church, "Put your hand on her belly and pray for her." I was told as the guy moved my hand. Usually it's men who tell you to do that. Because they are uncomfortable touching a lady's belly themselves.
But. Why. Does. The. Belly. Need. Prayed. For.
I could understand, maybe, if they were being prayed for a stomach cramp, but... It's like they think a lady's soul is stuck in their belly or something...
I moved my hand, to her shoulder. And someone moved it back.
So there I was with my hand on someones belly with, 'Awkward and squishy. Awkward and squishy. Awkward and squishy' playing in my mind like a scratched C.D. Not comfortably squishy like pinching a fat roll just... just awkward (seriously I can not explain the horrible terrible awkwardness of praying for someone's belly.)
'I'll just pray for her belt' I told myself, and moved my hand to the wide belt over her waist 'much better.'
People pray for bellies all the time. AS IF it is normal. Or something.
If anyone prays for mine I stand there and waste my prayers on praying that they will leave.
Or tense up and try to keep the frustration out of my face.
I fight nervous laughter.
Or I step away.
Occasionally I continue praying even though my belly is being assaulted. Mostly only if I am really really feeling that the person is lead by God to pray for me.
Edit: Sunday (11-28-10) a lady was praying for me and grabbed my ribs just above my belly. It was still strange, but not horribly so. If your hands need to be in that vicinity my ribs might be an acceptable place for them.
If you see my belly being prayed for, feel free to mention my discomfort to the person and/or send them a link to this post after service. Please.
---
I don't want girls rubbing my belly either.
In fact that is sometimes even more uncomfortable than guys rubbing it. Girls only occasional do so to me, and is more brief, so less intrusive.
Except in church when praying.
One of my friends recently said, "I hate, like, when someone pets my arm. And these people who have to be all over you all the time." She shuddered, "I am not a touchie person."
I made a mental note of her preferences, then said with a shudder, "Yeah well, I am a touchie person, but when people pray for my belly I feel assaulted."
Then that very night at church, "Put your hand on her belly and pray for her." I was told as the guy moved my hand. Usually it's men who tell you to do that. Because they are uncomfortable touching a lady's belly themselves.
But. Why. Does. The. Belly. Need. Prayed. For.
I could understand, maybe, if they were being prayed for a stomach cramp, but... It's like they think a lady's soul is stuck in their belly or something...
I moved my hand, to her shoulder. And someone moved it back.
So there I was with my hand on someones belly with, 'Awkward and squishy. Awkward and squishy. Awkward and squishy' playing in my mind like a scratched C.D. Not comfortably squishy like pinching a fat roll just... just awkward (seriously I can not explain the horrible terrible awkwardness of praying for someone's belly.)
'I'll just pray for her belt' I told myself, and moved my hand to the wide belt over her waist 'much better.'
People pray for bellies all the time. AS IF it is normal. Or something.
If anyone prays for mine I stand there and waste my prayers on praying that they will leave.
Or tense up and try to keep the frustration out of my face.
I fight nervous laughter.
Or I step away.
Occasionally I continue praying even though my belly is being assaulted. Mostly only if I am really really feeling that the person is lead by God to pray for me.
Edit: Sunday (11-28-10) a lady was praying for me and grabbed my ribs just above my belly. It was still strange, but not horribly so. If your hands need to be in that vicinity my ribs might be an acceptable place for them.
If you see my belly being prayed for, feel free to mention my discomfort to the person and/or send them a link to this post after service. Please.
Friday, December 3, 2010
My Belly is Mine. Not Yours. Please Don't Touch It.
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I know my rock hard abs fascinate you. Oh well. Get over it. Go pet a turtle.
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When I was 16 one of my best friends used to always grab me and force me still while petting my belly. And I fussed and fumed and pushed him away, but he just laughed. Finally I talked to his girlfriend, "Can you please, pleeeeease ask ____ to quit touching my belly?" So he stopped. (I'm sure she didn't like watching him always grabbing me either...)
I said that to say I would do so again. A mild threat I guess.
There is another guy who won't stop grabbing me again lately. Ugh it freaks me out.
So to you. (And yes I know that you know I have a blog)
I've already asked you to quit--Please do so.
My belly is off limits for you. I am definitely more cautious around the people who have grabbed my tush and boobs than those who pet my belly. I realize you don't feel that it is a big deal. Maybe even your wife doesn't care.
But I care. My belly is too much for you (a married man) to be rubbing. I realize that your belly is not important to you, and it has been explained to me by various people that acquaintances/friends rubbing each others bellies is the same as a handshake. *Shudder*
I don't consider you a creep. (Only because you are normal in other ways, and I feel your heart is clean.)
However, this particular behavior is creeping me out.
[Edit: I did talk to this recent guy's wife. Bla awkward. But it's over, so that's good.]
I know my rock hard abs fascinate you. Oh well. Get over it. Go pet a turtle.
---
When I was 16 one of my best friends used to always grab me and force me still while petting my belly. And I fussed and fumed and pushed him away, but he just laughed. Finally I talked to his girlfriend, "Can you please, pleeeeease ask ____ to quit touching my belly?" So he stopped. (I'm sure she didn't like watching him always grabbing me either...)
I said that to say I would do so again. A mild threat I guess.
There is another guy who won't stop grabbing me again lately. Ugh it freaks me out.
So to you. (And yes I know that you know I have a blog)
I've already asked you to quit--Please do so.
My belly is off limits for you. I am definitely more cautious around the people who have grabbed my tush and boobs than those who pet my belly. I realize you don't feel that it is a big deal. Maybe even your wife doesn't care.
But I care. My belly is too much for you (a married man) to be rubbing. I realize that your belly is not important to you, and it has been explained to me by various people that acquaintances/friends rubbing each others bellies is the same as a handshake. *Shudder*
I don't consider you a creep. (Only because you are normal in other ways, and I feel your heart is clean.)
However, this particular behavior is creeping me out.
[Edit: I did talk to this recent guy's wife. Bla awkward. But it's over, so that's good.]
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